1. Not Just Another Productivity Hack

    December 27, 2019

    The inspiration for this post came from researching ideas for blog posts. Write about a productivity hack! Several blogs said. Everyone wants to be more productive!

    So now seems like a good time to inform you: this is not another blog post about productivity. This is a blog post about overcoming deeper things to be productive. I will give you a hint: it’s not time that holds me back.

    I have always been organized. I make lists, and then I make lists for my lists, and I get a productivity high when I check boxes. Despite how organized I may seem, I am in fact a normal person. And like most people, I am afraid of failure.

    This has the biggest impact on my productivity, and I am guessing it impacts yours as well.

    For me, it comes in the form of holding back. I could probably do more, but I am afraid. So I don’t put my whole heart into projects, and I am not surprised when they don’t succeed. But then I can tell myself that I did try (but did I really?). For other people, this takes the form of procrastination. You’re afraid to take action because you are worried you will fail, so you are paralyzed until the last minute.

    Unfortunately, planners and sticky notes can’t solve this problem.

    The good news is that failure is completely normal. In fact, failure is the key to success. It teaches you lessons that reading simply can’t. Too much preparation is the same as collecting too many underpants. You can keep collecting underpants, but what good does that do you?

    Confused by that sentence? This blog post was an eye-opener for me: https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/underpants-gnomes/

    So, here is my productivity hack: just do something. Do it and move on. Don’t dwell on mistakes, don’t dwell on what others will think, just start. Done is better than perfect, and failing is better than not trying at all. If you’re still hesitant to get started, set a goal so easy it would be embarrassing to fail. A goal is no good if you don’t actually take steps toward that goal, am I right?

    Read more about setting fool-proof goals: https://stephenguise.com/how-to-be-an-imperfectionist/

    So to send you off, here is a list of some of my favorite quotes about failure.

    “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work” -Thomas Edison

    “Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” -Winston Churchill

    “It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” —J. K. Rowling

    “You always pass failure on your way to success.” —Mickey Rooney

    “Pain is temporary. Quitting lasts forever.” -Lance Armstrong

    “If we learn from the experience, there is no failure, only delayed victory” -Carrie Chapman

    Remember that every time you try again, you are starting from experience.



  2. Making the cut

    December 20, 2019

    This is a vintage Deidre post from an old blog I used to have. I thought it would be fun to dig up, since I got my hair cut short again.

    As I will mention later in this post, cutting my hair usually has an emotional aspect to it. Growing up, I wanted to have ’emo’ hair, but I was too nervous to get such an edgy cut. So I’ve lived out the dream of 13 year old me, and I finally have my emo hair. I did what I wanted and what made me happy because that has been the theme of this year. No more prolonging my happiness or worrying about other’s opinions.

    I was really proud of this post when I wrote it back in 2016, and my thoughts surrounding my haircut were a big revelation for me at the time. Without further ado, here it is:

    (November, 2016)

    This past week I made a decision: I was going to get my hair cut really short and I could not back out (into a pixie, but my hairstylist corrected me and said it was actually a short bob).

    I have had long hair almost my entire life, with a few above-the-shoulder length flings with short hair. As a female, you are expected to have long hair. Hair is your beauty. Without it, we are told (or at least it’s strongly implied) we are as good as one of those cats with no fur.

    I have always kept my hair long without questioning it, even though it would get caught on my backpack, caught on my boyfriend, bugs would get caught in it, and sometimes I would accidentally sit on it. I was never good at styling hair, and never particularly interested in learning how. I just knew that to be a girl, I had to have long hair.

    My few flirtations with short hair always happened after big moments in my life- a falling out with a good friend, my first breakup. There is something cathartic about cutting one’s hair. This time when I cut my hair there wasn’t a negative impetus; for me it was symbolic of growing up. I’d been dating my boyfriend for 4+ years, I landed my first real job, got a 401k, and made an investment into an awesome bike to have as my main mode of transportation.

    Back to the main point here- I thought cutting my hair was about me. To signify an important change in my life. I WAS WRONG. Apparently cutting MY hair was a big deal to everyone else who has to look at me, and they felt free to share their feedback.

    Results: Overwhelmingly positive! (except for my dad, but that will never change. Hi dad!)

    Everyone at work loved my new hair. To my shock, the men in the office complimented my new cut, and the women commented on how freeing it must be. I was shocked! I thought my hair was my beauty! It is and isn’t.

    See, there are many definitions of beauty. I’m getting a bit ramble-y, but I wanted to impart that you shouldn’t keep your hair a certain way because you think it is what is expected.

    I realized that I was keeping my hair long for fear of other’s reactions to it. Now I get to be part of a secret society of women who know how great short is. We have an instant bond.

    Those women know it’s freeing. They know you save shower time, style time, and money on product. They know they made a choice about their body that was for them and not to please anyone else (if you like long hair that’s great too, but do it for you and no one else!) They know that people will look at you differently, and it’s an awesome feeling.

    And surprise, no one’s eyes have melted yet because my new hair isn’t their idea of beauty. Over the last week I’ve felt respect, admiration, and even jealousy. To the one girl who said “I wish I could just cut my hair like you” the good news is, you CAN. I did. JUST DO IT!

  3. Can you bike in the winter?

    December 13, 2019

    Can you? Yes. Should you though? Sure, why not.

    Unfortunately this is not my bike.

    Winter biking is about preparation and discipline. So is a business. The same traits that prompt me to try winter biking also prompted me to open an Etsy store. So, this still relates to Quest for Cute 😉 I dare you to challenge yourself and bike once this winter!

    I wrote this post in November, which is fully fledged winter in Minnesota (Wisconsin, I miss you). You may have thought good biking weather ended in September. WRONG! You can bike all year, except for maybe December-January (depends how snow covered the bike lanes/trails/sidewalks are).

    Well my friends, I am about to demystify winter biking! The key is layers. Here is a list of what I wear:

    1. Sweatpants

    That’s right, sweatpants! The kind you get from college. You could also probably purchase them from any superstore for a reasonable price. Notice how I didn’t write spandex?

    2. Leggings

    Sometimes when it gets chilly (around 10 degrees) I will wear leggings under my sweatpants.

    3. Athletic shoes

    My feet actually don’t get very cold while biking, but if your toesies are prone to freezing, you could wear boots, or plastic bags over your shoes (seriously, bags are great) I wear normal athletic shoes with some socks!

    4. Socks!

    I wear crew socks until it drops to the notably chilly temp of around 10 degrees, then I will wear my wool socks.

    5. Shirt

    Ever heard the expression ‘cotton kills’? Cotton won’t keep you warm or dry- it will keep you wet and and cold though! My bike commute is short enough that cotton doesn’t pose a danger (about 7 miles, takes me about 40 minutes) so I still wear cotton sometimes, but otherwise I wear a long sleeve or short sleeve dry wicking Nike shirt. You can definitely tell the difference in the quality.

    6. Sweatshirt

    Ok again cotton kills, but I alternate between a cotton and polyester sweatshirt depending on my laundry situation. The shirt helps buffer the sweat, so no dying during my 7 mile ride.

    7. Windbreaker

    You know those 3 layer jackets you get from Columbia or Northface? I just use the outer shell over my sweatshirt. I found the inner fleece to be itchy, constricting, and gross after biking. The sweatshirt is roomier.

    8. Gloves + Mittens

    Hands do get cold, and you need a little more mobility to effectively shift and break. I wear a pair of wool gloves underneath loose, soft mittens. This gives me the warmth and mobility I need.

    9. Balaclava

    I wear a face mask when it hits between 10-20 degrees. It keeps my face toasty.

    10. Hat

    I always wear a hat, starting around 55 degrees and under, otherwise ears get chilly! I wear it on top of my balaclava too.

    11. Glasses/Goggles

    I wear cheap safety classes I got for $10 off Amazon to stop the wind from freezing my eyeballs at zero degrees. They do fog up a little bit, but for the price and the infrequency of me biking in 0 degrees, it works just fine. My husband got a pair of ski goggles for $40 from REI on sale, which seem to work well and don’t fog up. Also, he looks a lot cooler than I do. But otherwise, cheap glasses will do, especially when paired with the balaclava and hat.

    So that’s all my gear. But gear will only get you so far, and you may be wondering- what about the ice???

    I did in fact hit a patch of ice last year and slid off my bike. The good news is, there was so much snow it was like landing into a snowy cushion. I only had a bruise where my saddle hit my thigh, but other than that, it was a pleasant fall. Also, my multiples layers padded me as well. As long as there isn’t a foot of snow to bike through, you can bike! 🙂

    Additional accessories to consider:

    A safety vest ($10 at Menard’s)

    Here in Minnesota, it gets dark at 4:30PM in the winter. That means I am always biking in the dark. I noticed a visible difference when I started biking with a high visibility vest- cars gave me the space I needed, they were like “Whoa this girl is safe! Here’ s a 20 foot buffer!”

    Front and rear light

    We never see the light of day in the north. I like to have front and rear lights to increase my visibility and spot and patches of ice.


    This is a given! I use it for every season to carry my crap around. It’s waterproof and can hold alllll my layers, for those last minute Midwestern weather changes!

    Bus Pass

    In case there’s a last minute snow storm and you actually can’t bike home :0

    Cell phone

    So you can call your friend to pick you up if you beef it on the ice 🙂

    That’s it for now! Give it a try and let me know how it went. Remember to take it slow, keep an eye out for ice, and enjoy the freedom of winter biking and the trails all to yourself.

  4. My Mantra

    December 06, 2019

    If you couldn’t guess already I think a lot about life. I love self help books and self improvement. Probably (definitely) a little too much. I just want to be the best Deidre I can be =^.^=

    In one of my favorite books ever, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, it has you write a mission statement for your life. It is both scary and simple; forcing your to think about what you have accomplished so far and what you have yet to do. But don’t be intimidated by the title of the book; it’s not about how you can squeeze in more meetings or be more productive- the key word is effective for a reason.

    He encourages you to be effective in life. That means in your relationships, community, and contributions to society. How do you want to be remembered by your friends and family? It could be as simple as being remembered for always showing up, or for bringing the best cookies to the bake sale, or for volunteering in the community. It doesn’t have to be groundbreaking- I actually think it is better if it isn’t, because then you’re not paralyzed by the pressure of trying to become rich/famous/super innovative.

    I really believe that small things add up, and if you are known to your friends as being generous, who knows what kind of impact that could have on the world? Maybe you inspired your circle of friends to be a little more generous too, and their generosity inspired even more people.

    ~Back to the mission statement~ other than keeping me on track, this exercised has helped me become a more grounded, decisive person. If you know what your values are, no one can question that. So here is the recipe for how I try to live my life:

    1. Always grow. I think this started because I always felt like I had to overcompensate for my quietness and femaleness. But now, growing is essential in redirecting the course of my life. Also, what else do I have to do with my time?
    2. Fail Brilliantly. In order to actually do anything with my Etsy shop, I had to fight my perfectionist tendencies and be okay with messing up sometimes, because failing is better than being inaction caused by fear. Launching a Kickstarter was the most stressful thing I did this year- the first one didn’t quite make the goal, but the experience I got was invaluable, and my second Kickstarter went much better. It didn’t matter how many articles I read before I launched, failure was the best teacher.
    3. Try. I will try most things. I attribute this to my dad daring me and my brother to eat the strangest thing on the menu whenever we went out to eat. Also, who wants to miss out on things? Try and it could be great! Try and it could also not be so great, but then you have your answer 🙂
    4. Include others. My heart pangs when I see someone being left out. You can just tell in their face. I may be quiet, but I will talk to anyone.
    5. Be choosey. As an artist, I felt like I had do to every creative endeavor. I painted, I did photography, I sewed, I sculpted, I made candles. I did a lot of things. And I am grateful I tried all of them. But now that I am focusing only on illustrating, I feel relieved. I have more time to excel in one thing, and ignore the things I still enjoy but am less passionate about. By eliminating things, you are actually freeing yourself to work what you love most.
    6. Be inspiring. By working on myself, I hope to inspire others to do the same. I know it’s no fun to be in a dark place, and I want everyone to know it is possible to pull yourself out.
    7. Have faith. Life is weird. Life is confusing. Why are we here? I don’t know. But I accept that there is probably a higher purpose, and as a human I will never be able to mentally or physically comprehend what the bigger picture is. So I have faith that life is good, life is worth it, and it will all be ok in the end. And that makes me happy.
    8. Be brave. In order to make things better, you have to be brave. Your quality of life depends on how brave you are willing to be, and how many difficult conversations/situations you are willing to have. You can do it. It is scary to change a job, it is scary to have a conversation with your boss, it is scary to share your innermost thoughts on the internet. But, my life has improved each time I’ve done something scary. It’s a necessary and rewarding part of life.

    Whew! That was a lot for a Saturday morning. This time, I’m drinking Chocolate Truffle pu erh tea while writing this post. I think it will replace my chai for a bit 🙂 so, what is your life mantra? Or, if you prefer something lighter, what is your favorite warm beverage?



  5. Take your step

    November 29, 2019

    After college, I just assumed I would get my dream job. Or even just a good job. I wouldn’t say any of the jobs I had were bad, but they also weren’t exactly what I had imagined. They were very tangentially (not at all) related to art, which is what I actually wanted to be doing.

    So then I asked myself, why am I not taking steps toward doing what I wanted to do?

    At the time, I thought I was headed in the right direction. I was like yes, I am saving money so I can do art in the future.

    But who knows when the future would be? 3 years from now? 10 years? 20?

    I could only delay what I really wanted to do for so long. Even if I wasn’t consciously thinking about it, unconsciously my body was like, we reject this mission! And I started having weird physical symptoms.

    Since then, I have taken small steps in the direction I want to go, and things started falling into place.

    Step one: I started by taking an illustration class. I really found a style I like and that works from me. I realized I don’t really like drawing environments, but I do like to fill up a page. Which is how I came up with this idea for greetings cards. This style feels more authentic and true to me, which makes it more enjoyable and easier to create.

    Step two: invest in expensive, professional markers. Aah!! For anyone that knows me, I am very hesitant to drop cash. Luckily, the markers have been a game changer and I use them all the time. They were a worthwhile investment!

    Yum cookies

    Step three: Digital art/Graphic Design has always been kind of a struggle for me, and I do my best to avoid it. However, I recognized the benefit that a real graphics editing software would have for my business, so I faced my fear of Adobe programs by enrolling in a Print Production class. I finally understand the difference between Tiffs, JPEGS, and PNGs, and I feel more confident in my ability to approach print shops and get my cards printed.

    This all took the course of about 8 months. When I put it in a short blog post, it seems logical. But at the time, I didn’t see how each of the pieces connected. I just started listening to what I felt called to do, and faced the fears that were preventing me from doing them.

    Always take steps. Small steps add up. And the good thing about taking steps is if you’re not on the path you want to be on, you just take more steps toward that path.

    Best of luck on your journey, and take a step today.



  6. November Update

    November 22, 2019

    Just as I was stocking up my closet on cozy sweaters and fall colors, snow appeared. I didn’t even have a PSL yet. Welcome to the sequel of Winter: Deidre watches Netflix (again)!

    This past month was the end to a couple things: the end to four weekend road trips in a row (that was way too many) and the end of my print production class. I feel significantly less stressed out now. But I also did a lot of fun things this month! I attended my college’s homecoming, stayed at the coziest Airbnb ever, and was a ballerina for Halloween.

    There’s actually no snow in this pic, but I promise it was there 24 hours earlier!

    My favorite memory of the past month was the haunted house with my parents- for some reason this haunted house wasn’t particularly clear, and when we couldn’t figure out where to go, we went through a giant door (logically) that turned out to be the fire exit. Woops. A few people even followed us out! I didn’t even realize anything was amiss; things were roped off, and there was a run down truck. I just assumed it was part of the decor, but I was wrong.

    For the upcoming year, I am going to dive into creating greeting cards! They are currently in the works, but I don’t want to rush it because I want them to be amazing. And they are all hand drawn, which means the process is a little slower, but I think in the end it will be a very high quality product that we all will love 🙂 fabric products are going to take a back seat for now; they are not quite as versatile as greeting cards. So if you’d like a pencil case or laptop sleeve, you should probably get one within the next few months!

    Other fun things this month: I am getting caught up on my blog again, I am practicing yoga more (gotta fight off the winter blues!) and I found two new teas I like: decaf spice and chocolate truffle pu erh. I binge watched the new season of Great British Baking show and Queer Eye in Japan. Did you love it too or did you really love it?

  7. Thoughts on working part time and the secret to success

    November 15, 2019

    Earlier this year, I had been working part time for a few months. This came after I was feeling really burnt out from my string of unhappy jobs, and I needed some time to regroup and plan before launching into another full-time job. My part time job was enough to pay the bills, so all was well.

    It was kind of an unusual decision for people in my age group- working full time obviously allows you to have more money, which allows you to pay for more things. I felt guilty not maximizing my earning potential- but I was also trying to frame things differently in my mind, and accepting that while I wasn’t making a lot of money, I was investing in myself, and hopefully it would pay off in the long run.

    So, I just wanted to share some thoughts on my part-time experiment, in case any of you daydream about working part time instead of full time 🙂

    The good:

    1. I felt like I could breathe. While working full time, I felt like I could never stop. Between commuting, cooking, grocery shopping, and preparing for the next day, all my time was taken up. At the end of each night I was exhausted, and the only thing I had energy for was Netflix.
    2. I drank chai and did yoga every morning. I felt pretty healthy at the end of winter 🙂
    3. I didn’t get sick at all. I had minimal stress, so my immune system was kicking butt.
    4. I focused more on my passions, and actually watched less TV. Since I wasn’t stressed, I wasn’t exhausted, and I didn’t resort to TV to relax.
    5. I had a lot of energy every day- I slept better because I was less stressed, so I felt better, and was more productive.
    6. I took classes for fun. When you’re working full time, the focus is your career and professional development. I splurged and took an art class because I wanted to, not to increase my income.
    7. I had more flexibility, so I could be more spontaneous. This included last minute plans and road trips.
    8. Errands were a breeze- I could go to the DMV during the middle of the day, and I didn’t have to use PTO.

    Wow! Do you want to work part time now? Well, here are the not so glamorous parts to think about:

    1. I missed being on the same schedule as everyone else. All my friends and family were on the 40 hour a week schedule, so while I could be spontaneous, my friends could not.
    2. I actually wasn’t as productive as I thought I would be. I thought I would spend all my free time working on my art and my Etsy store, but if you do that too much, it almost starts to feel like a full time job again.
    3. Since I was part time, I didn’t get benefits, and my job felt less secure.
    4. And of course the obvious downfall: less money.

    I really enjoyed my 6 month mini-cation while it lasted- and I would definitely consider working part time again in the future after having more savings. My life had a good balance, and I could do what I enjoyed while also sustaining my lifestyle.

    The most valuable thing I gained from working part time was an answer to something I had often wondered. While at my previous job, I daydreamed about what would happen if I just quit and focused on my art and my business. I thought that all I needed was time off to become wildly successful- then I would have time to draw without feeling exhausted.

    The answer I learned was this: You can’t speed up success. Many of the big businesses that are around today have been around for DECADES. Coke didn’t just launch last year and have wild success. Great things are built over time. They are built through practice, and through taking one step each day to improve. More time can certainly help, but more important than that is consistency. Working part time certainly helped give me the energy and time needed to work on my art, but it also didn’t make me an instant success. All snowballs start small, you just need to keep rolling it 🙂

  8. Just a bunch of photos of my foster cats

    November 08, 2019

    Aren’t they cute?? I started fostering 3 years ago after playing with my friend’s foster kitten- at that time I didn’t even know you could foster animals!

    I was so excited to start fostering because it satiated my desire to have a cat while I was still on my AmeriCorps budget. It was the perfect solution and I’ve been doing it ever since 🙂

  9. Final Collection of the Year: Winter Snuggles!

    November 01, 2019

    It’s the final collection of the year! It will be released TUESDAY, November 5th at 7PM. Check out my store here. Now, let’s see what goodies are in store!

    A penguin notebook! How adorable. The cover has that kind of soft, kind of matte feel like an orange peel. Then penguins will guard all your secret thoughts!

    Kawaii milk and cookies! What could be better than sentient milk?

    What’s this? A corner of a pouch! Features the new snowflake design.

    Would it be Christmas without ornaments? heck no! This pattern is available on pencil cases and pouches. You can organize and store all your Christmas doodads in them 🙂 or use it year round if you really love Christmas!

  10. Monthly Update: October

    October 25, 2019

    Happy fall! How are you doing? Drinking all the pumpkin spice?

    In an effort to cram in all the fall activities possible, I may have overexerted myself this month. I had a fall activity planned for every weekend, which sounded like a good idea at the time. But now I am EXHAUSTED. Still, fall is great!

    I went on a long bike tour and stopped at a beautiful waterfall. The fall color was just starting to come in, and the sunny 60 degree weather was perfect.

    Next up on my long list of fall activities, I watched Hocus Pocus while eating a pumpkin spice cupcake. It had been so long since I had seen it, it was like watching it for the first time. When I was young, I totally had a crush on Thackery. (what kind of name is Thackery by the way??)

    I also made artichoke dip for the first time. It was pretty simple! I used artichokes, mayo, and parmesan from Costco. Next time I might spruce it up with another ingredient… perhaps cream cheese?

    What are your favorite fall activities and fall treats?

  11. Personal Failure or just a bad fit?

    October 18, 2019

    I wanted to write a follow up post to the one about why I quit my job to further explain the reasons behind my decision to quit, but in the end, I think it came across how I wanted it to.

    There were a lot of reasons I quit, and I kept rewriting my post because there were so many reasons but none of them seemed to do my decision justice. Mostly, I didn’t want to blame anyone- because it really wasn’t anyone’s fault. And I didn’t want to come across as “too sensitive for this world.” I may be sensitive, but that doesn’t mean I need to put up with unhappy situations. No amount of self help books or negative self-talk over the last 28 years has seemed to change the fact that I am sensitive, so I guess that trait is here to stay ~(*.*)~ accepting this has been hard, but that’s another blog post!

    At its core, the issue was that I believed it was necessary to struggle and grind- isn’t grinding what you are supposed to do before there is a big payout? Is work really work if it isn’t painful?

    I resisted quitting because then the grind would have been for nothing- there would be no promotion to make the struggle worth it. I also worried that it was my fault for not being able to make the job work- I would ask myself, why can’t I just do the job? Why can’t I just make myself be better?

    What I should have asked was: why struggle? Why not do something I’m good at? Why not be brave? Sometimes a situation is just a bad fit, not a personal failure. It’s ok to accept that you were not made to do everything. You don’t have to go against the grain and pretend to be something you’re not, because that is exhausting. Maybe that’s obvious to some, but I never knew I could just try to get a job I might be good at. I never felt ‘ready’ or ‘worthy’. An enjoyable job could only be attained after the struggle, when I had 110% of all the necessary skills and qualifications. But, it turns out that if you apply to enough carefully curated jobs over the course of several months, eventually you might actually get one. And this time, it will actually be one you want. Whoa!

  12. Why being left-handed isn’t that cool

    October 11, 2019

    Hi fellow lefties! (but most likely righties)

    Let me break down why being a lefty isn’t that cool (this isn’t even a humble brag post, I promise. Now let’s make fun of lefties!)

    My journey with left handedness began when I was 4 and couldn’t tie my shoes. How the heck does the rabbit go into the hole around your thumb? I honestly still don’t know. Velcro shoes were my best friend, and I probably would have worn them the rest of my life if my mom hadn’t stopped me.

    I finally learned how to tie my shoes from my babysitter, who taught me the rabbit ear method. This is still how I tie my shoes (seriously, I don’t get the rabbit in the hole method???)

    Pretty quickly after that trial, I had to learn how to write. In a completely different way than my classmates. Luckily, my first grade teacher was a champion and pulled me aside for special left-handed writing time, where she taught me how to hold my pencil correctly. She wasn’t even left-handed, what a saint!

    Unfortunately, gym teachers were less sympathetic. There was rarely left handed equipment, and if there was, you better hope there weren’t any other lefties in your class, lest you have to fight over the left handed golf club! Guess who got stuck with a righty golf club- I’ll give you a clue. I can golf with either hand =^.^=

    I also had to learn everything completely backward from everyone else. I couldn’t properly mirror the gym teacher, and I now realize they just thought I was inept at sports. I also thought I was inept at sports, because it took me longer than anyone else to learn what we were doing in gym. Which of course, why wouldn’t it when I had to learn everything backwards? 10 year old Deidre’s confidence level: 0

    Which brings me to my next point: everyone says it is great to play sports as a lefthander, but if you paid attention during my last paragraph, you can guess what I have to say about the matter. It FREAKIN sucks unless anyone has the patience to teach you properly. I took fencing two years ago, and though it was really fun, it was an uphill battle to learn. The instructor and my fellow classmates frequently forgot I was left handed, and they liked to correct how I was holding my sword, until they had an embarrassing moment of realization. No, I was really not dumb enough to hold my sword in the wrong hand. Lol.

    The one thing I am super jealous of righties about is how they can literally use any equipment. Want to shoot your friend’s bow? Sure, go ahead. Meanwhile, I will not try to shoot the bow, lest I impale someone. I’m not that ambidextrous 😉

    I also never learned how to play guitar because that would have involved special instruction and a special guitar. Someone once asked me why I don’t just learn how to play it right handed, and to them I say “Why don’t you learn how to play it left-handed?” It’s hard and feels weird, that’s why.

    And let’s not forget about the arm-stabbing notebooks spirals. Or hand-pinching scissors.

    So in closing, now that I have sufficiently self-deprecated, I can humble brag a little. There are a few good things about being left handed: it makes you kind of unique. Allegedly you are more creative. Sometimes you have an advantage in sports. And it gives you an instant bond with other lefties. But it also has drawbacks, and sometimes affected my confidence (shoe tying??? sportsball?!!???). So if you are a righty, you can feel grateful for all the equipment-related opportunities you have, and I hope you will strum a guitar in honor of the lefties that don’t always have an easy time. And to you lefties, hiya!

  13. New Stuff! Illustrations I’ve been working on

    October 04, 2019

    So if you’ve been following along, you know I’ve been taking an illustration class. It’s been a GAME CHANGER. Not necessarily in the drawing aspect, but in finding my style.

    I thought Kawaii was my style- and it still kind of is, but I realized it’s actually somewhere in between. It’s like cartoony-realism. For this series, I challenged myself to make some pretend greeting cards to see how they would turn out (and maybe they will become real greeting cards soon!).

    We used this layout a lot in class, and I found it very freeing. I don’t really like to draw backgrounds or environments, and I don’t really like making one object the focal point. I felt limited. Until I discovered this layout! Now I can draw all the things together.

    This is when I discovered that I really like comforting things like cake, warm beverages, books, and cats (the last one was a given). It reminded me a lot of the things you would find in a cat cafe. Pretty everything I drew would be in a cat cafe, actually. So to sum up my style: cartoony cat cafe. Boom.

    What do you think of these cards? Which is your favorite? Even if you don’t want to publicly comment, send me a message 🙂 it would help me immensely!

  14. Monthly Update: September

    September 27, 2019

    Last week was intense! Let’s lighten things up and talk about my favorite city in Wisconsin 🙂 Madison!

    Growing up in Wisconsin, everyone knew Madison was the coolest place you could go. It had the BEST school, the BEST restaurants, the BEST sports, and it was completely unlike the rest of Wisconsin. I went there a couple weeks ago, and now that I’m an adult and I live in a much larger city, Madison is… STILL CHARMING!

    Look at that cute little Madison bee!

    I was enchanted by it the first time I set foot on State Street as a 14 year old. There were so many new stores to explore (like Urban Outfitters- my favorite at the time) and people walking down the middle of the road. WALKING ON THE ROAD! I had never seen anything like it before. And I loved it.

    Hi Bucky!

    Now that I was back as an adult, I was excited to do things I couldn’t do as a when I was in high school, like go to the Farmer’s Market! The farmer’s market surrounds the capital and boasts scones for ‘sconnies (did I hear my name?) and warm cheesy bread. You’ll also find several people with megaphones talking about the end of the world and their least favorite politicians. The energy was invigorating.

    If you go to Madison, my must do’s include:

    The Terrace. It is the student union, but you don’t have to be a student to go there. There are people of all ages enjoying pitchers of beer on the famous colorful chairs.

    The Great Dane. There are lots of good restaurants in Madison, but this one has a special place in my heart- I went to it with my family while visiting my brother. All their food is good. All the cocktails. All the beer. And at small city prices! You can also sit outside and be enchanted be fireflies while sipping your homemade soda.

    Midtown Pub. I was only there once, but what an impression it made. Bowls of free and tasty chex mic were on every table, and they made the best and the cheapest [Wisconsin] Old Fashioned I’ve ever had.

    C’s Restaurant and Bakery. Across from Midtown Pub, their breakfast food was cheap, amazing, and unpretentious. Get there early so you can get a table! Their homemade desserts were to die for.

    Botanical Gardens. FREE, and expansive! When you first enter, you will not realize how expansive it is. But it just keeps GOING. And there are frogs in ponds. And unique flowers. and a beautiful Thai Pavilion!

    How many frogs can you see?

    What is your favorite city to visit? Have any recommendations?

  15. Why you should do what’s best for you

    September 19, 2019

    A little while back, I quit my job. Actually, I’ve quit several jobs. I took whatever came my way, happy to never be the dreaded U word (AKA, Unemployed). One unhappy job led to the next, and each time I believed things would be different. Turns out, that was not the best plan.

    You see, if you only leap from lifeboat to lifeboat, you only learn to stay afloat, not to thrive. I was surviving, but I never realized that all along I could have been happily sailing around. If I had just looked around in between desperate flails, I would have realized there was a shore, and that I didn’t need to be treading water for so long.

    So basically, that long boat analogy is me. I flung myself into bad situations that I didn’t have to, because I didn’t believe it was possible to have anything better. Happiness? What even is that?

    I was really nervous to share this, because I worried you may think “She didn’t have it so bad! At least she had a job! I have it worse!”

    Well, things COULD always be worse. But that’s not a good reason not to do something. Especially when it begins to affect not only your life, but your health. And that’s why I think it’s important to share this. Because while someone probably does have it worse, that does not invalidate your situation. Your situation can still be crappy, it may just be a different level of crappy. And happiness should be your the baseline, not the exception, and you shouldn’t settle for anything less.

    For a long time, I had my mental game under wraps. I was plugging away, day after day, unaware of little changes that were creeping up on me. I started sleeping a lot more- which wasn’t immediately cause for alarm because I’ve always liked to sleep. Since I was tired, I figured I just needed to bike more. So I exercised like crazy, biking around 60 miles a week to get those sweet endorphins.

    Then, things started to get a little weirder. The month before I finally quit, I started getting heart palpitations and random back pains. I figured that I might have been from biking too much, so then I started getting massages to help with the back pain. Oddly, it seemed to only help for a day.

    My breaking point was when I was in a restaurant with my friends, and my chest started getting tight. The room was a little warbly. I went to the bathroom to take deep breaths, but my breaths were shallow. I felt trapped. I cried even though I wasn’t sure why I was crying.

    Though I tried really hard to control it, my series of unfulfilling lifeboat jobs caught up to me, and the stress began seeping through the cracks. Sure, my jobs “could have been worse.” I may even be “too sensitive.” But I didn’t like how I was feeling, and I didn’t want to live like that. And maybe I am too sensitive, but that’s who I am. And that’s how I feel about that.

    Quitting my job was one of the best and healthiest decisions I have ever made for myself. All of my weird symptoms have since gone away.

    I immediately started sleeping better, had more energy, and focused on my art again. I got a part time job, took classes in illustration, did yoga every morning, and was able to do things I wouldn’t have otherwise like spontaneous road trips home and traveling to New York. For the first time in a long time, my life was in balance.

    Fast forward, I now have a new full time job that I am super excited about. And I dare say, for the first time since graduating college, I am happy. I broke the cycle, and I could have been doing it all along.

    Remember to be kind to yourself and do what’s best for you,


  16. Kickstarter Update: Pins are IN!

    September 13, 2019

    I just got the pins this week, and I am SO PUMPED.

    Look at them!!

    I even got the fancy rubber backings instead of the typical butterfly clutch. Rubber backings are cuter, and they won’t get weird and bendy, meaning your pin will stay put!

    And they match!

    And for all the backers that supported me, expect to see them to arrive within the next couple of weeks in this eye-catching package:

    Teal is clearly my favorite color.

    I am so humbled by the support I received to make these pins come to life. RPGs and cats hold such a special place in my heart, and now they do in my art 🙂 thank you again!

    Want a pin but didn’t pledge? Keep an eye on my Facebook page or sign up for my email list to find out when they will be in my Etsy store!

  17. My Secret Fascination

    September 06, 2019


    I wouldn’t say I am a fan of ghosts, nor do I hope they exist. But anyone that knows me knows I have a thing about ghosts. One of my biggest fears is living in a haunted house with a malevolent ghost. Chill ghosts are fine though =^.^=

    Like I said, I don’t want them to exist, but I also don’t want them not to exist. Life is a little more exciting with a few unknowns 🙂

    I’m not sure where my fear/fascination with ghosts came from- but I do know I have a very active imagination. It may come as no surprise that I can’t stand scary movies. Somehow seeing it portrayed on a screen makes my brain be like “yah that’s totally real.”

    For example, I was at a Halloween party where Poltergeist was playing silently in the background, and even without the sound or my full attention, I could NOT HANDLE IT. Totes had nightmares.

    The first scary movie that I ‘watched’ (with a blanket over my head) was Texas Chain Saw Massacre. I didn’t watch another scary movie for two more years until I was invited to watch Paranormal Activity (which I was only okay with since the lights were on). Each of these movies was a traumatic experience, and now I’m always on the lookout for suspicious looking chicken feet.

    Despite being on the lookout for things like demonic chicken footprints, I haven’t actually experienced any paranormal activities- I think. There was a house I lived in while I was in college that was maybe haunted, and where I maybe heard footsteps coming from upstairs while I was home alone (but could probably be explained as typical houses noises or squirrels in the walls??) just to be safe, I noped out of the college house without finishing my breakfast, and spent the hour before class in the library.

    Other than that, my life has been relatively ghost-free, and though I am not convinced of their existence either way, I like to remain cautious. In honor of fall/Halloween, feel free to share any spooky stories of your own!

  18. Favorite Way to Spend a Day

    August 30, 2019

    What is your favorite way to spend a day? This question is always so interesting because it changes so much from person to person. Get ready, because you’re in for a ride! (a relaxing ride filled with chai tea :))

    Saturday is of course the superior day and my favorite. You’re well rested (probably) since you got to sleep in, and there is no work hanging over your head for the next day! I like to start my Saturdays off by eating a long breakfast, preferably of fluffy blueberry pancakes with piping hot chai tea. Sometimes I’ll even call my mom in the morning 🙂 then, I like to relax with some drama filled reality TV, and once I am fully awake and showered, I will do something creative like draw, paint, or write a blog post (as I am doing right now- what a surprise!)

    Me writing this blog post with some chai tea in my giant Sailor Moon mug. Blog inception. #livingmybestlife

    After that it’s time for lunch, where I’ll make a fancy salad or curry dish. In the afternoon is when I get active- I either fish, play tennis, or go hiking. Dinner is probably a hamburger or some kind of pasta, and then I end the day with a cocktail and a sitcom.

    Phew! There were so many twists and turns in my thrilling ideal day, I hope you were you able to hang onto your belongings! Feel free to share your ideal day in the comments, I would love to hear about it!

  19. What Keeps Me Creative

    August 23, 2019

    Some of the best advice I received in college was inspiration does not strike, it is created.

    I was having trouble coming up with ideas for my senior art show, and therefore I procrastinated until I thought of the ‘perfect’ idea. As my post suggests, the number of ideas I had was zero.

    I explained this to my professor which is when he gave me that nugget of advice. You need to create stuff first before you will be inspired. Even if that first stuff is bad. Sometimes you have to make some bad stuff just to get the ball rolling.

    He gave me an assignment to draw something 100 times in different ways. It sounded daunting, but I had nothing for my critique which was in 5 days. I picked a statue of the Buddha from my study abroad program which really spoke to me and spent all weekend drawing the same statue.

    100 images of the Buddha on the wall was powerful and created a beautiful collage effect. Even though I drew it 100 times, they were all a little different, and I learned something with each iteration. I discovered which materials I liked and didn’t like, which mediums went well together, which colors really popped together. And I had tons of ideas for where I was going to take this idea next.

    Young me at my senior art show 🙂 can you see the elephants in the paintings? lol

    So in conclusion, the best inspiration is just getting started, and embracing the fact that some of it may be crappy. Sometimes you need to dig up some rocks before you find some gems 🙂

  20. New Collection: Cozy Feelings!

    August 16, 2019

    Everyone loves fall, and it may come as no surprise that I also love fall, probably for the same reasons as everyone else: Pumpkins! Pumpkin lattes! Hot beverages! Spices! Corn mazes! Haunted houses! Apple picking! Cider! Everything!

    My new collection serves up hot beverages and with a large helping of cute animals. We’re talking cuddly foxes, mischievous squirrels, and curious hedgehogs. We’re talking piping hot tea, happy matcha tea lattes, and cozy mugs overflowing with coffee. Do you have cozy feelings yet?

    Collection launches on Thursday, August 22nd at 7PM CST 🙂 get it here!

    Vegan leather straps and lined with a magnetic closure. So luxe!
    Squirrels and acorns and hedgehogs, oh my!
    How cute are these cute-teas??

  21. It’s back to school time! Give me your life hacks

    August 09, 2019

    It’s almost back to school time! So for fun, I thought I would write about my life hacks/principles that I live by. Feel free to share your life hacks in the comments as well!

    Relationship Stuff

    1. Say yes to plans more often that you say no. As an introvert, staying in and laying on the couch is my default preferred activity. It’s low stress and comfy. And that’s about it- there’s no excitement, no bonding, no memories to be made. In the moment, it may be preferable to do nothing over expending energy to do something, but usually you’ll feel a lot better getting out and about 🙂 and you’ll look back with fewer regrets.

    2. Make other people feel welcome. Survey the crowd, see if anyone looks uncomfortable, and say hi. You will 100% have a new introverted friend.

    Money Stuff

    I am frugal- I love the thrill of the hunt, the challenge in finding cheap deals and things to do. Here are some things I do to challenge myself:

    1. Bike when you can. Is your workplace less than 10 miles away and not riddled with highways? Try biking! The library is only 2 miles away? Why not bike! You get exercise, a good mood, and save money on gas. Not to mention, you don’t have to fight for parking 🙂

    2. Cook like 80% of your meals. I wouldn’t say I enjoy cooking, but after years of cooking, I have become a semi decent chef unintentionally. It saves money and you build a skill!

    3. Have lots of cheap hobbies. Instead of buying candles, I learned how to make them. And then I made soap. And bath bombs. You’ll have Christmas gifts for decades!

    Necessary but not-so-fun Stuff

    1. Do the dishes, or at least rinse them out before they get crusty. No one ever wants to them, might as well do them when they’re still easy to clean!

    2. Get everything ready the night before. No more worrying that you’re forgetting something and no more running late! I have never not done this, so I have a hard time understanding why you wouldn’t- but also I understand that some people may prefer a more leisurely morning than my mad dash to get ready in 25 minutes. I love me some sleep.

    3. Finally, be nice to yourself and free up some brain space by doing the things you are dreading most. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound by cure 🙂 it make your life simpler and less stressful, leaving you more time to enjoy yourself with less worrying!

    What are your life hacks or principles that you live by?

  22. The Best Gift I Ever Received

    August 02, 2019

    In 7th grade, I received a Yellow Submarine sweatshirt and “Cat Lover’s Soup for the Soul”. It was the right amount of quirky and mainstream, and I loved it. The sweatshirt was worn well into high school, and Cat Lover’s Soup for the Soul sits prominently on my book shelf after surviving rounds of KonMari purging.

    Have any of you read the 5 love languages? Though the title has the word love, it can apply to friends and family members too. My love languages is 100% gifts (not saying you have to get me any ;)) My first reaction was “I’m not materialistic!” But then I thought about the times I felt most loved, and it totally made sense. It’s not so much about the gift as it is the effort and thought put into choosing a gift. It shows they paid attention to all the little things you say and do, and they really GET you, and your interests, and who you are as a human being.

    On the flip side, the gift I was most proud of picking out was for my brother’s high school girlfriend. I was a freshmen in high school at the time, so obviously the two best things I could think of for another deep, artsy soul like myself: the Twilight book and the Juno movie soundtrack. I was so proud, and a little jealous that she was getting such an AWESOME gift. My mom surprised me with the same gift a week later because she’s the best 🙂

    Other great gifts I’ve received: tea and a homemade birthday cake, a cat card game, cat socks and a coloring book. My tastes have not changed much apparently =^.^=

    What are some of the best gifts you received?

  23. Real Talk: What I’m NOT going to do this year

    July 26, 2019

    This year, I am not going to be mean to myself.

    As an introverted child, I had a hard time making friends. I quickly learned that who I was (a quiet person) was not ideal. Comments like “why are you so quiet?” made me even more nervous in social situations- I wanted to talk more to blend in, but then I would get so nervous about what to say I wouldn’t talk at all. And I was not very kind to myself about these ‘failed’ social interactions.

    So I tried to pretend to be more outgoing. I read self help book after self help book on how to talk to people and how to better myself. I thought of at least 20 things I could talk about at any given time, but inevitably someone would still call me out for being ‘quieter’. I would beat myself up over it because I had failed in my goal to be “talkative.” Every time I heard that I was quiet, it reminded me of my failure. If only I were more talkative, I would have more friends, more opportunities, a better life. If only I had a completely different personality, everything would be better.

    Because of this, I was going to extremes to ‘perfect’ myself. In my mind, if I achieved ‘perfection’, then no one would ever be able to tell me I was quiet. Or, even if I was still quiet, it wouldn’t matter because of all the other great things I’ve done. To me, being told I was quiet meant I was still not good enough.

    I wanted to have so many adventures that no one could tell me I was shy. I wanted to be so well rounded that no one could call me a nerd. I surrounded myself with hobbies and knowledge and experiences as a protective shield.

    But the problem with having a goal of ‘being outgoing’ is there is no definitive end. And it wasn’t the real me. I was running myself into the ground for an unhealthy goal I would never reach. No matter how many hobbies I had or how hard I tried to pretend to be outgoing, there would always be people that would comment on my personality.

    Does that sound like an enormous amount of pressure or what?

    So yeah. This year I am not going to be mean to myself. That means I have taken a step back from constantly trying to ‘improve.’ It means no more self help books or negative self talk. It means no more dissecting everything I said, everything they said, every facial expression I thought I may have made when talking to someone. It means not beating myself up and not blaming myself for every social interaction that isn’t ‘perfect.’ It means treating myself like my own best friend: with encouragement and acceptance 🙂

  24. My biggest purchase on Etsy

    July 19, 2019

    Yup, I purchased my engagement ring and both of our wedding bands on Etsy.

    There are a ton of websites out there that sell rings, and I must have looked at at least 50 while searching for my forever ring. I scrolled through rings for hours, but everything just felt a little generic. I wanted something that looked vintage, and to make my search a little more difficult, I also wanted a ruby instead of a diamond. And that’s where Etsy came in, and why Etsy was totally perfect!

    Our wedding bands – both from Etsy!

    Why a ruby? It’s a play on my last name, and I have always loved red stones- my birthstone is a garnet. From Etsy, I got a custom gemstone, custom wedding band to match my engagement ring, and they were both significantly less than the $3000 jewelers online were charging. It was exactly what I wanted!

    I also bought several things from Etsy for the wedding reception, such as decorative gold paper place mats which I used under the centerpieces (pictured in back, made with gold washi tape, Ikea candles, dollar store vases, and some hot glue). I didn’t have a cake topper per se- instead I got these cute cat figurines to put in front of the cake 🙂 they were gold and vintage, which matched the colors and theme of our wedding.

    I also bought a gold vintage frame from Etsy for our Victorian themed engagement photos. So fun to dress up and do those old-timey photos!

    Etsy really came through for my wedding in finding unique items that had a little more flair. Since becoming an Etsy seller, I am more inclined to also shop on Etsy. A lot of love goes into each item, and you know you make someone’s day! Also, they are usually happy to make something custom for you 🙂 I’ve done several custom orders myself!

    What was your favorite purchase from Etsy?

  25. Fun with Illustration

    July 12, 2019

    So! I mentioned a few weeks ago that I’m taking an illustration class. And because of that, I spent a ridiculous amount of money on professional grade artist markers. Below are some things I drew with said markers:

    an orangey!
    Kokeshi doll
    More sketching with markers 🙂

    It’s a little different than my style in my Etsy store, but I kind of like it! What do you think?

    You all said you love the items with cats in my shop, so expect to see more animal things in the fall 🙂 I can’t wait. Also, more cats.

    Just for fun, here’s a gouache painting I did- gouache is very new to me, and I’m not sure how I feel about the ‘flatness’ of it, but it is fun to experiment! I absolutely love these figures I got in Japan, they are such good inspiration 🙂 notice how I drew it three times haha.

    Which is your favorite style? Do you prefer digital or hand drawn?

  26. Tell me more – let’s play a game!

    July 05, 2019

    So it’s the day after the 4th of July so we’ll keep this short and fun 🙂 I looked up some of those fun quizzes that used to be all the rage on social media (maybe still are?). Here are my answers, comment your own if you’d like!

    1. I’m happiest when… I am wrapped up in blankets

    2. …Especially if it… watching Netflix, drawing, or playing a video game!

    3. I’ve always wanted to… travel to Ireland

    4. My first job was… working as a cashier at an outdoor ice skating rink. Reading by the fire, hot cocoa and toasted marshmallows for days! (the rink wasn’t that busy ;))

    5. I could probably eat chocolate everyday.

    6. I make the best… brownies

    7. I’m (now) a Minnesotan, but I think I’ll always identify most as a ‘sconnie. (That’s Wisconsin, obviously)

    8. At 5, I was deeply in love with my Princess Jasmine Pajamas and frogs

    9. I can’t stand… people clipping their fingernails in public. Why???

    10. Whenever House Hunters is on, I’ll watch it.

  27. Kickstarter Time!

    June 21, 2019

    I’ve restructured and changed things up for my 2nd Kickstarter! The first goal of $200 will be used to fund the Warlock pin. Each subsequent pin requires another $200 to fund. Here’s what the line up looks like:

    Each pin will be 1″ and made from soft enamel (which means they have slightly raised edges instead of completely flat, so it has kind of a cool texture!) and they will come with a butterfly clutch.

    This little cutie is first on the roster!

    Enamels pins are really cool, though expensive to make. It costs $200 to make a run of 50 pins, which is why I need your help! With pins, options for self expression abound and design options are pretty limitless 🙂 they are fun pieces of flair that are relatively cheap, other than the 50 pin minimum to start up. This is the cheapest these pins will ever be, and I hope you will consider helping out. You can do so here 🙂

    Thank you so much!



  28. Just for fun: Current Obsessions and Projects

    June 21, 2019

    Current Obsession: Nerds Ropes. Don’t ask me why. Actually do, and I’ll tell you: I saw them in a gas station near Denali and it reminded me of 7th grade dances which were a surprisingly happy time for me and that’s all it took for me to impulsively buy a box of 20 (that was the smallest amount I could buy :0) anyone want a Nerds Rope?

    What I am eating: Other than Nerds Ropes, I thought I would try eating less sugar (haha) but really though. Since it would be impossible for me to cold turkey stop eating sugar, I am doing Whole 30 ‘lite’, or as I like to call it, Half 15. Most of my meals consist of meat, eggs, quinoa, and spinach ?

    What I am currently working on: I am taking an illustration class, and I think it will really help me come up with some new creative stuff! I’ve been drawing cute things for so long, it might be good to get outside my usual style and explore something new 🙂

    A peak at my first illustrations of Russian dolls. Some might whisper into your ear when you’re alone in your bed (it will probably be the 2nd doll ;))

    I am also relaunching my cat enamel pin Kickstarter- watch for updates here!

  29. Summer Giveaway!

    June 14, 2019

    It’s time for my 2nd giveaway! This time I’m giving away a Strawberry pie padded laptop case and a blueberry cheesecake pencil case.

    Doesn’t that look delicious?

    The pencil case is available in my store, and it is super soft and super vibrant. Honestly I’m a little jealous of whoever wins it 😉

    The laptop case was a test run, so it is ~extra special~ because it’s the only one of it’s kind! It has a padded fuzzy interior and is 15″x11″.

    You can store your pens, markers, or any other trinkets!

    Giveaway runs until 6/27/19.

    ~Click here to enter—> http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/ebbd7e941/?

    **Open to residents of the USA who are 18 and older

    **You have several opportunities to win but not all are required!

    **You are NOT required to like my page to enter, though it will make it easier to find you if you have won! Liking my page will not results in an entry.

    **Giveaway ends 6/27/19

    **Please check out my Etsy shop if you would like to purchase these goodies and/or to check out my other cute accessories: etsy.com/shop/questforcute

    **Note: Some older phones do not support this app and will not load the page. If your phone fails to load, please try again from a desktop computer.

    **View full official contest rules and conditions here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1RIc2o6U3ZV4lv34xA0o5kjUmI8DQDo0fGrpk9AGoRUU/edit?usp=sharing

  30. How Operating a Business is like Dating

    June 07, 2019

    I get butterflies whenever I get a sale- and I’ve had about 200 butterflies. It reminds me a lot of dating: putting yourself out there and hoping they like you- or in this case, your product. There is nothing more rewarding when those feelings are reciprocated. But as we all know, sometimes you have to wait for a while before you land a good fish 🙂

    Those moments of business are really enjoyable, but the majority of business feels more like endlessly checking Tinder: you don’t know who will be your next love interest, and you get slightly more desperate the longer it goes on. The biggest challenge is to keep going despite not knowing when you will find ‘the one’ (AKA find the customers that love your style). However, each time you push yourself a little farther, you uncover something new. You learn how to make better designs. You learn how to connect with your customers. And you learn how to believe in yourself (even if it’s out of necessity :))

    Business and Dating toolkit: a life vest, also known as believing in yourself. OG Deidre knew life vests were necessary.

  31. My Favorite Things cuz why not

    May 31, 2019

    Pictures are more fun right? So, from left —> right.

    1. Campy movies. I love The Room and Labyrinth for reasons I can’t quite explain. I have watched these movies more than anything else I have ever watched.
    2. Frogs are great. I caught them a lot when I was younger, and I’ll never forget the endless fun (or terror if you were a frog) we had every summer.
    3. Blackwarmetalgraymon. That’s quite the mouthful eh? One of the charming aspects of Digimon was how bizarre the evolutions and names were. I had a great time transforming this here toy from Agumon into Blackwarmetalgraymon and back again.
    4. A married couple from Japan. I got these from my host family when I went to Japan. They are so pretty! Even more meaningful now that I am married now.
    5. Love Letter: the best game ever. For those that have an aversion to romance for whatever reason, this game doesn’t really have anything mushy about it. Just a cutthroat trick taking game that is totally perfect. Easy to learn, fun to play endlessly.
    6. More movies! Who doesn’t love Miyazaki? Howl’s Moving Castle and Kiki’s Delivery Service are my favorite. Also pictured: Gigi.
    7. Pokeball from Burger King. What a relic! I can’t believe the toys used to be so good! I got that for buying a burger??? Anyway, I’m still in disbelief. No mom, I never did outgrow Pokemon.
    8. Tarot cards from a rummage sale. Now I can live my childhood dream and be just like that girl from the anime Escaflowne.
    9. A card game no one has ever heard of (aka Warlord). I entered quite a few tournaments with this guy.

    Take notes, because there will be a test on this later 😉

    What are your favorite things?

  32. How my parents shaped me and my business

    May 24, 2019

    Couldn’t think of a click bait title for this one so I’m just laying it out there 😉 mother’s day was last week, but you can appreciate your parents any time! This post is a shout out to the ‘rents and how they inspired me 🙂

    My mother is a beacon of sunshine, and nothing can ever dampen her positivity. She stays the course, happily plodding along. She is also incredibly organized, which is a trait she fortunately passed along to me. She takes care of everyone and makes them feel at ease. She also appreciates a good TV drama as much as I do.

    Dad is so tall it made cropping this picture hard lol

    My father is always pushing me to try new things- we often had competitions at restaurants to order the most unusual foods. He is unapologetically himself and has a wide variety interests; he enjoys D&D as much as he enjoys fishing. He is the reason I am a huge nerd; we played EverQuest and World of Warcraft together when I was growing up. He also took me to Gen Con where I won a Happy Birthday Pikachu (one of my most prized possessions). Because of him, I will always feel at home at game shops and conventions, and hope to one day sell my creations at a convention like Gen Con!

  33. New Summer Collection Launch – Fruity Delights

    May 10, 2019

    My new collection launched yesterday!!!

    Kawaii Pies

    This collection was a joy to work on whilst I was cooped up in my apartment from snowy February to snowy April. It started while I was daydreaming of summer and what I was most looking forward to: 4th of July. Who doesn’t love the 4th of July? Being outdoors in the sun, grilling with friends and family, fireworks, and most importantly: those blueberry and strawberry pies that look like American flags. I absolutely LOVE those pies, and those are strong words coming from someone who pretty much exclusively eats chocolate.

    Gingham Strawberry Pies

    I asked some of you what your favorite part of spring is and you said the green grass and sunshine- I am happy to announce we finally have green grass in Minnesota (even if it occasionally still gets covered by snow in MAY. MAY!) Anyway, we’ve had a couple of days in the 70s already and we’ve already grilled out twice. You never know when the weather will change here, so we make sure to pack in as much summer as we can whenever we can!

    Gingham Blueberry Pies

    This summer I am most looking forward to strawberry picking! Strawberries are my favorite fruit. Though I will admit, I definitely do more strawberry eating than picking. What are you most excited for?

    I tried something new with this collection and made my own gingham pattern, and I am so happy with the results 😀 and the fabric is the same buttery soft, thick fabric with a quality zipper! Hopefully you can see the quality and texture through the pictures. I absolutely hate it when I buy something online and it’s nothing like the picture, or it feels really cheap because it was made in China. I 100% promise my pencil cases are so much better than that 🙂

    Check out the new collection here: etsy.com/shop/questforcute
    And don’t forget to receive 20% off your first purchase! Be a cutie and join my VIP list for the coupon code: http://eepurl.com/gby2Gz



  34. Nerdy Horizons – Oldies and Goodies!

    May 10, 2019

    What a whimsical blog title!

    I really do have two loves: cute and nerdy. A few of you may know of my other Etsy store where I sell RPG related items. Previously known as Gems and Scales, I did a complete rebrand, and it is now called Cutest Loot! (I couldn’t let that gem of a name fall by the wayside) more cute goodness but with an RPG twist. In the semi near future, I will offer skirts, yoga pants, and hopefully enamel pins!

    My best selling mug. Are you sure? If the game master has to ask, then the answer is no.

    There is a lot of overlap between Quest for Cute and Cutest Loot, and when they do overlap, I will be sure to post about Cutest Loot updates here 🙂 think of it as Quest for Cute’s far nerdier twin.

    As I also briefly mentioned, I am doing my first Kickstarter! This is one of those moments where there is overlap between my two stores: cute cats, nerdy theme.

    If it is fully funded, I will create cute character class pins 🙂 right now, I have pins designed for barbarians, rogues, and warlocks.

    Enamel pins are durable, light, and small enough that you can bring them anyway. The options for self expression and flair are limitless (plus they are so darn cute). If you are interested, you can check it out here.

    That’s it for now! If there’s anything you’d like to see in the future, be sure to let me know 🙂

  35. How Tidying and Life Goals Go Together

    May 03, 2019

    About a month before the KonMari craze, my husband picked up the Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. At first I was confused by his choice, since our apartment is so small, we already have to be tidy by necessity. How could we be any more tidy?

    I strongly encourage you to read it (watching the TV series doesn’t count!). Because her book is so succinct and free of clutter, it is hard to summarize how magical it is. You’ll just have to trust me on this 🙂

    After going through everything in my apartment, I had 6 grocery bags of stuff to donate. SIX BAGS. That may not sound like much, but our apartment space is at a premium. We could fit a few extra people in our apartment for 6 bags worth of stuff!

    It was so liberating to purge the clothes that plagued me- ones I bought on sale that were just a little off such as shoes that were just a little too tight. and pants that were a little too short. Yes I paid money for them, and for the longest time I held on to them because of that. But now, I am not haunted by my clothes. They were still invaluable because they taught me a lesson: don’t buy things you don’t really want just because they’re on sale

    And now we’re getting to the part where it actually relates to my Etsy store: the items I was collecting without realizing I had a collection. Who knew I had a penchant for toothbrushes, tea tins, beads, and… pencil cases??

    “No duh, Deidre,” you may think to yourself. We all know you are a 6 year old princess at heart who loves collecting shiny things. Yes, I love unicorns. Yes, I love cats. And about 50% of my clothes are a shade of pink. And now that I know myself, I can embrace it. Looking at all my stuff made me realize, “huh, so this is who I am,” and gave me so much self awareness. I love things that not only make me smile, but are also functional! (Such as toothbrushes, and you guessed it- pencil cases)

    As you may have noticed, I now have a kawaii themed Etsy store with functional items. I absolutely love it! Who doesn’t feel happy after looking at a cute animal? Who doesn’t want accessories that express themselves? Which is why I do what I do now- functional cuteness. When you have limited space, you need to make everything you own count 🙂

    Have you tried the KonMari method? What did you discover?

  36. April Update

    April 26, 2019

    Who doesn’t love a snowy April? Are any of us in Minnesota surprised? I was hoping I could give you more exciting updates other than “watched Netflix while it snowed”. Since I first drafted this post, the snow has melted and we’ve had a few 70 degree days! But again, as us Minnesotans know, that doesn’t mean anything 🙂

    If you were hoping for more excitement, I did go to Boston and New York in March! It was only 30 degrees in Boston, but heck, that was 30 degrees warmer than Minneapolis.

    It was downright balmy!

    We stayed in Chinatown and basically our New York trip became a noodle tour. We had all the noodles.

    Plus, I discovered boba ice cream (why does this not exist in Minneapolis??)

    Dare I say it was better than bubble tea?

    Other adventures include buying Torchic from the Nintendo store, ordering cocktails from the boujie Death&Company, and bagels upon bagels.

    I’ve also started a new project! Trying my hand at Kickstarter for enamel pins, inspired by classic RPG character classes. In cat form, of course. It runs until May 26th, check it out here!

    I’ve had several other projects on the burner as well: my spring collection, summer collection, and even my winter collection! I’ve been playing around with ideas while I’m still cooped up, because good luck getting anything done while it’s summer 🙂 everyone in Minnesota goes into a frenzy to cram as many summer activities as possible in the few months of decent weather we have. If you have anything you’d like to see in a future collection, let me know!

    In other news, my one year marriage anniversary is coming up in May! My husband and I are going glamping. What are your summer plans?

  37. How to Design a Collection

    April 19, 2019

    Deidre, how do you come up with your designs?

    Good question!

    For my first collection, Galactic Confections, I thought of what would define me and my store. What is the thing I love most? Cats. The second most? My husband. Third? Unicorns.

    Next, I doodled different versions. Outline or no outline? Winking or eyes open? Mouth or no mouth? I tried different things until I liked the end result, and asked my friends to vote on which style they preferred

    Once I had the main elements down, I was looking for more cohesive drawings that would fit with the theme. What goes with unicorns? Space, clearly. So I drew stars and moons. What is as sweet as cats? Cupcakes, obviously. And once I drew the unicorns, I was like, why can’t my cats have wings too? And boom, my caticorn was born.

    I also thought very hard about the color scheme- I started with my favorite color teal, plunked it into a color generator, and kept clicking until it came up with a combination of colors I liked.

    I typically draw more elements than I need. For galactic confections, I had ribbons, ribbons with wings, hearts with wings, hearts upon hearts, and even an evil caticorn (gasp!). I move the elements around and copy and paste until they fit into a nice little puzzle. During this process, I find that some of the things I drew don’t fit (like evil caticorn) but that’s okay, because they may make an appearance further down the line, or they inspire new ideas and combinations.

    What does your creative process look like?

  38. So what’s in a name?

    April 12, 2019

    Video games. Sparkles. Cats. What do they all have in common? (do they even have anything in common??)

    I love glitter, princess, unicorns, and… video games. And I know I’m not the only one who does. I really struggled to convey these seemingly different things in a one little store name. I tossed around names such as Cutest Loot, Cute Loot, and Cute Castle- though none of those captured the warm fuzzy feeling of Japanese Kawaii and the adventurous spirit of well, questing, as much as Quest for Cute did. The challenge came from combining all these seemingly different things, though as I wrestled to capture my idea in the perfect words, I realized that overly cute and the competitiveness of video gaming really do go well together. Kawaii is the rebellion against expectations of what grown adult women should like, while gaming is typically thought to be a more competitive and male dominated hobby. Both are rejecting social norms. Who says people can’t like cute things once we grow up? Who says women can’t be competitive? Who says people can’t be cute and competitive

    A little bit about my background

    I was playing in Pokemon card tournaments when I was 10 against guys who were 18. If you know me really well, you know that my most prized possession is the Happy Birthday Pikachu I won in that tournament. #winner

    My beloved Happy Birthday Pikachu, complete with 10 year old Deidre’s handwriting.

    If you know me really well, you also know that I have been playing MMOs since I was 8. My first character was a high elf wizard named Truly Sweet in the game EverQuest. I literally ran out of the computer room because I was too scared to fight the orcs in Crushbone.

    When I was 13, I discovered the very aesthetically pleasing universe of World of Warcraft. This time I created a night elf druid (also named Truly) because druids could turn into cats (everything in my life comes back to cats =^.^=). I was a tank for my raiding guild (whoa) and I was a 13 year old girl (double whoa) which is one of my proudest achievements. Can I put that on my resume?

    So, to tie this all in a neat little package, you could say there are two sides of me: the one that is drawn to the girl’s toy section in Target (uh, hello glittery princess everything) and the one that is a closet nerd who spent hours of her youth PVPing (player vs player, and if that still doesn’t make sense to you, just know I kicked other player’s booties). For a long time I wondered how I could have such ‘conflicting’ interests, until I started wrestling for the perfect name for the store. That is when I realized the underlying themes: happiness and rebellion. Do what makes you happy, like what you like, and it doesn’t matter if it makes sense to anyone else.

    Anyone want to reminisce with me about EverQuest or WoW? <3

  39. Unicorns in Space Giveaway! Open until 4/18/19

    April 05, 2019

    First of all, let me say hi! Enjoying all the spring weather? Me too! Of course, if you live in a normal state that is not Minnesota, maybe you experienced spring weather much earlier. Of course, I’m still a little hesitant to believe this is ‘real’ spring. Just because it looks and feels like spring in Minnesota, does not mean it is Spring, even when it should be spring. Last year, we had a blizzard on April 14th. Yeah. The bus couldn’t even make it through the snow, and I had to walk a mile and a half home. So, I’m cautiously optimistic that this is ‘real’ spring, and not ‘sucker’s spring’. I am squeezing in all the hiking and outdoors things I can, because as all Minnesotans know, it may not last. It is definitely possible to get snow in May.

    That was a long intro just to talk about my giveaway! Now that it’s out of my system and we’ve caught up on all that is new and exciting in my life, have you heard about my giveaway? If you’re here on this blog, than yes, you probably have, because that’s probably how you found my blog. Congrats!

    I will be giving away a galactic unicorn tote bag, notepad, and pencil case. They all match and are oh-so-cute.

    Click here to enter—> http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/ebbd7e940/?

    I have to get some quick disclaimers out of the way, so read them below if you desire:

    **Open to residents of the USA who are 18 and older. You have several opportunities to win but not all are required! You are NOT required to like my FB page to enter, though it will make it easier to find you if you have won! Liking my page will not results in an entry. View full official contest rules and conditions here

    I plan on hosting more giveaways in the future, so thank you for following and spreading the word!



  40. What is my inspiration? You’ll never guess! =^.^=

    March 30, 2019

    This post is all about cats. Because I FREAKING LOVE CATS. And it’s very important to my origin story and inspiration for my business.

    About 19 years ago, my grandma died. About 18 years and 10 months ago, my grandma took in a black kitten that was shivering by her garage. Grandma named her Cleo.

    Cleo and I had an instant bond. She was affectionate, quiet, and nervous, not unlike the 8 year old me. She didn’t bite, and she let me hold her. She was totes my best friend. I begged to go to grandma’s house so I could eat Lucky Charms cereal (which she secretly kept stocked) and play with Cleo.

    When grandma died, Cleo came to live with my family. By losing one best friend, I gained another.

    Not all cats live forever, and Cleo died on New Year’s Eve as I hailed in 2012. Not the best way to start my year.

    Fast forward to 2016. I graduated college, finished AmeriCorps, and was wondering how I could have a cat but also not pay for a cat (student loans lol) when one of my friends told me about fostering!

    I have fostered two cats and six kittens since then. They’ve had eye infections, UTIs, URIs, and ear mites. My husband and I nursed them all back to health!

    So end of story, I LOVE CATS. Look at my little angels below!

    Sleepy little kitty baby
    A purrrfect specimen
    Another sleepy kitty

  41. How did I get started?

    March 23, 2019

    Everyone has an origin story- and everyone loves an origin story!

    So what is MY origin story? So glad you asked!

    I will spare you the soul sucking details of working a job you really don’t like. I am still searching for my ‘job charming’!

    So instead of waiting for job charming, I decided to start an Etsy store. That was back in 2014. I sold paper crane garlands. They were really pretty!

    Origami Crane Garlands

    But… they took me so long to make, and I only made about $12 off each one for hours of work. Ah! Not the way to run a business.

    What does everyone love at craft sales? Candles! Soaps! Yes!

    I tried my hand at candles- they were too heavy to ship. And breakable. So I tried my hand at soap. Soap takes a month to cure- and also you have to use lye. For the hypochondriac in me, that wasn’t something I wanted to do long term.

    Then I made mugs! They were nerdy, and people seem to like them. But I couldn’t connect with the audience as well as I thought I could. I like D&D, but I don’t necessarily live and breathe it. Ask me one question about stats or items and my eyes glaze over.

    ONE FATEFUL DAY, I was tidying my apartment and going through my things. And what did I see? Pink. Cats. Unicorns. Polka dots. Ribbons. Explosions of color everywhere. Glitter.

    AHA! I thought to myself. So this is what I really love, and this is who I really am (did that come as a surprise to anyone other than myself? I don’t think so haha)

    And thus, Quest for Cute was born with the idea of creating cute accessories to add whimsy to your everyday life. If you have an office job, you certainly need some whimsy to get through the week! I plan to keep creating cute things that I love. Stay tuned for more accessories in the next couple of months!

  42. Need Cute Storage After Tidying? Problem Solved

    March 15, 2019

    Looking for some cute storage for your precious belongings? This little teal cat pouch will accomplish just that.

    It has fabric that is incredibly soft with a kick-butt zipper that will not eat the aforementioned super soft fabric!

    My laptop is about 12”, so I use the 14” pouch to allow extra room to shuffle my laptop in. Honestly, I use my laptop frequently enough that it doesn’t need protection from dust- really I use it as a laptop sleeve because it makes my laptop look fricken cute. Which in turn makes me feel fricken cute too.

    If you have already Marie Kondo’d your apartment, this nifty little bag can be an aesthetically pleasing storage bag for craft supplies, pencils, jewelry, and etc.

    You can also add a nifty little pull tab for $2 if clutches are your thing

    Teal has been my favorite color since I received a teal Game Boy for my eight birthday (how cute right?) I know you will love this pouch as much as I do. It’s so versatile!

  43. Can you have TOO many pockets?

    March 07, 2019

    So what’s new this week? I feel like it gets a little boring if I keep talking about the snow, so my default status is REALLY SNOWY AND COOPED UP until further notice.

    I did go see my friend’s new kitten yesterday, so adorable! It took me an hour to drive home in the snow, but it was worth it! <3

    In keeping with the theme of snow I am going snowshoeing today. I will enjoy this record-breaking Minnesota winter like my sanity depends on it!

    Now, let’s talk about my favorite product (I’m allowed to have favorites right? really though, all my items are my favorites. It’s a very close 15-way tie)

    The caticorn cosmetic bag!

    First off, what’s not to love? I drew this adorable cat with wings, and added a unicorn horn, and voila. Set in a delicate purple hue and lavishly decorated with cupcakes, ribbons, and ribbons on top of cupcakes.

    The fabric is so soft and high quality. The zipper zips like butter; no getting caught on this cosmetic bag!

    And it’s lined with denim. DENIM POCKETS!

    So the answer to my blog post question is no, you can never have too many pockets. This one has two inner pockets, which you can use to store literally anything. I use it to organize my jewelry, but you can also use it to store your cosmetics, because it is a cosmetics bag after all.

    You can get 20% off by joining the cuties in my VIP list here.

    And just in case you were looking for it, my listing is here.

  44. New Collection Feature: Galactic Confections

    February 28, 2019

    Let me tell you a little about my collection, Galactic Confections! For starters, it is epitome of me. When I was planning the collection, I thought of what I would personally love, and you can see the answer here is I really, really love cats and unicorns.

    Galaxy Unicorn Pencil Case

    I have pencil cases, cosmetic bags, laptop covers, totes, notebooks, and stickers! The bags are made with the softest polyester canvas, and most of them are lined. Also, they have the best zippers because screw cheap zippers.

    Teal Neko Laptop Case

    I was inspired to make cute accessories after Marie Kondo’ing my apartment and realizing all my cute pencil cases brought me joy. Yes, I still have them and now my collection is growing. We all need joy in our everyday lives! Office life is even better with a discreet unicorn notebook.

    All of my lovelies! I am seriously so proud.

    I know you will love my whimsical accessories as much as I do. Thanks for reading!



  45. Quest for Cute launches Thursday 2/28 (and other updates :))

    February 21, 2019

    Hey Cuties!

    Yes, my store finally launches next Thursday! More on that in a sec.

    This week I had a friend visit from college, and I’ve turned yet another unsuspecting soul into a Terrace House fan

    It may sound like I watch a lot of TV (that’s only half true :)) but have you seen Kitten Rescuers? It reminds me of the Great British Baking show with its peaceful tunes and feel-good theme. It reminds me a lot of my work as a foster cat mom, I’ve taken care of several kittens with ‘dodgy’ eyes. Their little squeaks make my heart melt every time!

    This week I received the rest of my samples for my product launch next week Thursday! I am so ready for it, I have been working on it for the last three months! I hope you love it as much as I do, since it literally has everything I love: cats, unicorns, and cupcakes.

    While I am waiting for next Thursday, I decided to do some drawing for fun and to get inspiration for my next collection. My next collection is still A SECRET, but I can tell you a little bit about my process 🙂

    First, I make a list of everything I like (which includes everything you would hopefully like as well!) and I pick about 10-12 things that would go together in a theme.

    I draw those 10-12 things, and start playing around with them together to create patterns. Not all of them work out, and I don’t use everything I draw. But it is hard to tell exactly what will work without putting all the pieces together! It’s like my personal puzzle. Once you find something that works, it is totally a light bulb moment. That’s what I’m looking for, and that’s how I know a pattern is a keeper.

    See you next Thursday at 3PM CST!



    PS. Here is my Etsy Store 🙂

    PSS. If you want 20% off, become a the Cute Castle VIP member here!

  46. Weekly Update: Snowmergency and Spring Designs

    February 08, 2019

    Hey Cuties!

    Wondering what’s up with me today? Well, I unburied my car, parked on a different side street (#snowmergency) and ate some dumplings. Good times!

    I’m still working on some spring designs, as well as looking into new kinds of products…. 😀 what is an accessory you can’t live without? A laptop case? A coffee mug? Let me know!

    I’m continuing to learn Japanese and keep up with my yoga practice. Most of what I do in the winter is combat the winter blues =^.^= gotta stay sane some how! I also tried my hand at baking bread, and unfortunately it wasn’t quite like the Great British Baking Show. Is it under-proved? Over-proved? I’ll find out in about 20 minutes!

    Tonight will be fun though, I’m going to play some board games with my friends, including Love Letter, which really doesn’t have anything to do with writing or letters but it is a super fun card game!

    What’s keeping you busy? Know any fun games?



  47. Weekly Update: Polar Vortex Edition

    February 01, 2019

    Hello everyone!

    This week I have been working on the designs for my summer collection. It’s keeping my spirits up during the polar vortex and the inches of snow. Both my husband and I have had our work cancelled this week because of the weather. For me, that means two things: my new favorite show Terrace House and a glass of wine. Do any of you watch that show? I love it!

    Inspired by Terrace House, I decided to start working on learning Japanese on Duolingo. I have been to Japan, yet I don’t know many words. Anime was also my childhood and I had dreams of learning Japanese but it was never offered at the schools I attended. Thank goodness for Duolingo and the internet!

    I also signed up for two community ed classes, both of which were this week. I learned my lesson, never sign up for anything in the Minnesota winter! The first class was NOT cancelled, despite the large amount of snow and dangerous conditions. I ended up walking halfway home from work after attempting to take the bus (it was not moving, nor were any other cars) and then hopping on the train, which is great for most of the way but still 1.5 miles from my apartment. I ended up walking home, but at least I got home! For many people I know, it took 2+ hours to go about 6 miles.

    I did end up attending the class yesterday which was on glass fusing. I made a cute little dish. Once it is fired, I will post pictures!

    I’m always interested in learning new crafts and expanding my art skills. Who knows, maybe I’ll have to include glass art in my Etsy shop!

    What kinds of things do you do when the weather is rough outside? Do you have any fun crafts or classes coming up?